It’s been so long since I last blog and the first thing that
I want to do is to change the whole layout of this page. It’s so…. Childish.
Ok. So I’m here to blog about the preparations of my
wedding. Hippeeee.
I got engaged on the 16th Jan 2016. It could have
been on our 7th anniversary on 13th Jan, but because I couldn’t
take leave, we could only go on our trip in the weekends. Anyhow, the proposal
was nothing that I ever imagined. It took me a little by surprise but could
have been a REAL BIG ONE if I did not accidentally see the “May the force be
with you” message from Jay to Andra. LOL. I’m still smiling while typing this
though it has already been half a year.
Our parents met at my home. Along with our siblings to do
the translation and to speak their experiences too. I’m even more taken aback
when my Dad actually wanted to do a buffet. The final verdict is to incorporate
both customs as much as we could. We are definitely doing the 过大礼 and my mum decided
that we should ask for auspicious dates too. Haha. Normally, this is done by
the groom’s side. The bride typically just lepak and wait for everything to be
settled. Lol. Somehow, I’m more excited for this whole wedding as this is a
once in a lifetime thingy and we should make it memorable in our own way rightttttt?
We started recce-ing everywhere, going for numerous hotels
showcases. Marina Mandarin Hotel, Orchard Hotel, Zhongshan Park Hotel, Shangri-La
Hotel, Changi Village Hotel etc. but nothing was close to what we wanted. We
then went on to research other venues and came by Gurame Indonesian Restaurant.
It was love at first sight! I even had all the activities, budget, other
vendors all sorted out. BUT, the location is one big problem. Though they
promised us shuttle busses to cater our guests throughout the event, we foresee
that many of our guests would not come as it is very troublesome to get there.
The carpark is free BUT, there is very very limited spaces. Probably about 30
vehicles at any one time? All the others will have to park at NSRCC and walk
over. If Singapore has an average temp of 25degrees, I don’t think our guests
will mind. LOL. They cannot reserve parking lots too because… yea… only 30
lots. While we still love this place, we started venturing out and attended
tons of wedding fairs.
Oh, did I mention about my gowns or our outfits and
pre-wedding photos? Hah. I think we like scared no clothes to wear or the
inflation of all these prices. We confirmed Feline Bridal in Feb. Or rather, I
confirmed it. And I’m kinda regretting it now because after signing up some wedding
apps, I realized that you can actually confirm Bali packages through this apps
or email them. You just have to fly there and meet them, and then the
pre-wedding shoots will be in a span of 1-2 days depending on weather. They can
do all the research for you. What’s more, it is half the price of what I signed
up for. L
Ok, whatever. It’s done deal already. I just have to look forward to it and
start my dieting soon. Have been junking since I was banned. Lol. That’s a good
1 ½ year. Need to start hitting the gym again and jog regularly.
We went to many restaurants such as Lagun Sari, D’Charisma,
Country Clubs too. We then went to BOWS in May, and sat down at so many of
those stalls listening to people selling, and standing up to say no soon after.
Lol. We finally found Holiday Inn Singapore Orchard City and Changi Village
Hotel. Went to visit those ballrooms and although HISOC was not our top choice
(the ballroom has pillars partially), we decided to go for it because of the
hospitality that we received throughout and also because of the location. It’s
right smack in town, 5-10mins walking distance from Somerset MRT. Initially, we
wanted to do a one whole day wedding, buffet style. And after some discussion
and calculation, we decided to do a 2 day wedding. Yes, 2 consecutive day. We’ll
be having a lunch banquet on Sat at HISOC for our close family and friends, and
a buffet on Sun at Lagun Sari for his relatives. IT’S A MARATHON. Lol. All
deposits have been paid, so I guess it’s confirmed.
Now is to decide on our theme. We would still want to stick
to beach or under water. But I’m just thinking that without sand, it would have
much feel. No I’m not engaging a wedding planner. I’ll DIY and/or ask the
bridesmaid for help. Hehe. I bet they will be so happy to!
